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2026趁早效率手冊有一本特殊版本——女性主義版。手冊中輯錄了十二位女性人物,她們是法官、作家、模特、飛行員、藝術家、企業家——更是自己生命的主宰者。我們在每周一和周五的頁面上,編輯了這些杰出女性的真實話語。
我們選擇這些語錄,不是因為它們“正確”,而是因為它們真實;不是因為它們遙遠,而是因為它們與我們每一個人的困惑、勇氣、脆弱、覺醒息息相關。每一句話背后,都是一個試圖打破定義、重構自我的生命現場。
愿你在這里讀到的不止鼓勵,還有共鳴:你并不孤單。愿你從這些話語中汲取的不止崇拜,更是力量——那種屬于女性的、柔軟而堅韌的力量,可以穿越時間,也可以在此刻點燃你內心的火種。
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一月
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魯斯·巴德·金斯伯格 Ruth Bader Ginsburg
美國聯邦最高法院歷史上第二位女性大法官,畢業于哥倫比亞大學法學院,她投身于平權斗爭,為性別平等付諸一生努力。她認為改變需要一步步實現,女性應出現在所有決策場合。
1.Real change, enduring change, happens one step at a time.
真正的改變,持久的改變,都是一步一步實現的。
2.Fight for the things that you care about. But do it in a way that will lead others to join you.
為你關心的事物而奮斗,但要以能吸引他人加入的方式。
3.Women will have achieved true equality when men share the parenting load.
當男性分擔育兒責任,女性才獲得真正平等。
4.My mother told me to be a lady. And for her, that meant be your own person, be independent.
母親教導我要做淑女——對她而言,這意味著成為獨立自主的人。
5.Feminism is the notion that we should be free to be ourselves.
女性主義即我們應自由做自己。
6.I am a very strong believer in listening and learning from others.
我堅信傾聽他人并向他人學習的重要性。
7.Don't be distracted by emotions like anger. They waste time and energy.
別被憤怒等情緒干擾,它們浪費時間和精力。
8.Never underestimate the power of a girl with a book.
永遠別低估一個手持書本的女孩的力量。
9.Women belong in all places where decisions are being made.
女性應當出現在所有決策場合。
二月
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塔拉?韋斯特弗 Tara Westover
2018年出版《你當像鳥飛往你的山》,她認為“我們每個人,都比別人故事中賦予的角色更復雜”,她自己通過教育改變了命運,因此鼓勵女性突破外界定義,勇敢尋找自我。
10.We are all of us more complicated than the roles we are assigned in the stories other people tell.
我們每個人,都比別人故事中賦予的角色更復雜。
11.An education is not so much about making a living as making a person.
教育的目的不在于謀生,而在于塑造一個人。
12.The skill I was learning was a crucial one, the patience to read things I could not yet understand.
我正在學習的重要技能,是閱讀那些我還不能理解的內容。
13.The past was a ghost, insubstantial, unaffecting. Only the future had weight.
過去如幽靈般虛幻,唯未來有千鈞之重。
14.I am a girl who dares to break free from the constraints.
我是敢于掙脫束縛的女孩。
15.Curiosity is a luxury for the financially secure.
對經濟上有保障的人來說,好奇心是一種奢侈品。
16.You can love someone and still choose to say goodbye to them.
你可以深愛一個人,卻仍然選擇與之告別。
17.It’s strange how you give the people you love so much power over you.
這是很奇怪的,你竟賦予所愛之人如此掌控你的權力。
三月
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貝瑞爾·馬卡姆 Beryl Markham
27歲起自學飛行,成為東非首位商業女飛行員,1936年成為第一位單人由東向西飛越大西洋的飛行員。其回憶錄《夜航西飛》1942年出版,她認為“行動與希望并存,但希望不可超越行動”。
18.A word grows to a thought – a thought to an idea – an idea to an act.
一詞生一念,一念生一思,一思促一行。
19.I'm not flying as a woman, but as a pilot.
我不是以女性身份飛行,而是以飛行員身份。
20.That's what makes death so hard--unsatisfied curiosity.
死亡之所以艱難,是因為未竟的好奇。
21.After that, work and hope. But never hope more than you work.
只管工作和心懷希望。但切勿讓希望超過你的努力。
22.Every tomorrow ought not to resemble every yesterday.
每個明天,都不該是昨日的翻版。
23.A life has to move or it stagnates.
生命必需前行,否則必將停滯。
24.I learned to accept loneliness and do meaningful things in it.
我學會接納孤獨,在孤獨中做有意義的事。
25.If you have to leave, leave resolutely and never look back.
若要離開就堅決離開,并永不回頭。
26.We should follow our talents and move forward bravely.
我們應追隨天賦,勇敢向前。
四月
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瑪贊·莎塔碧 Marjane Satrapi
她創作的《我在伊朗長大》是一部自傳體漫畫,講述了她如何在政治動蕩中保持自我。她認為“懷疑是通往智慧的鑰匙”,鼓勵人們通過自我教育來探尋真相。
27.Life is too short to be lived badly.
人生苦短,豈容虛度。
28.I realized then that I didn't understand anything, I read all the books I could.
當我意識到自己一無所知,便讀盡了能讀的書。
29.Once again, I arrived at my usual conclusion: one must educate oneself.
我再次得出同樣的結論:人必須自我教育。
30.The key to wisdom is doubt!
懷疑是通往智慧的鑰匙!
31.One isn't born courageous, one becomes it.
勇氣非與生俱來,而是后天鑄就。
32."Night brings good counsel", my grandmother always told me.
祖母常說:“黑夜孕育良策。”
33.All big changes of the world come from words.
世間舉足輕重的變化,都從語言開始。
34.Freedom had a price.
自由自有代價。
五月
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可可·香奈兒 Coco Chanel
她從貧困的孤兒院生活起步,在男性主導的時尚界開辟出一片天地。可可·香奈兒打破了傳統女性服飾的束縛,用簡潔、舒適的設計重新定義女性魅力。
35.Adornment, what a science! Beauty, what a weapon! Modesty, what elegance!
裝飾是科學!美是武器!謙遜即優雅!
36.A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.
女孩應具備兩種特質:優雅與奪目。
37.Fashion has two purposes: comfort and love. Beauty comes when fashion succeeds.
時尚的兩大要義是舒適與愛,美是其成功的產物。
38.You can be gorgeous at thirty, charming at forty, and irresistible for the rest of your life.
三十歲可風華絕代,四十歲能傾倒眾生,余生皆令人無法抗拒。
39.My life didn't please me, so I created my life.
若生活不如意,我便重塑生活。
40.The most courageous act is still to think for yourself.Aloud.
最有勇氣的行為是獨立思考,大聲表達。
41.Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.
當你決定做自己,美便從此而生。
42.Fashion is architecture: it is a matter of proportions.
時尚如建筑,關鍵在于比例。
43.In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different.
想要無可取代,就必須與眾不同。
六月
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瑪雅·安吉羅· Maya Angelou
美國著名詩人、作家和社會活動家。她以親身經歷為藍本創作了《我知道籠中鳥為何歌唱》等多部自傳體作品,用文字對抗種族歧視與性別壓迫。她的詩歌和散文充滿力量,鼓勵無數女性在困境中尋找自我價值。她認為“勇氣是最重要的美德”。
44.Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.
成功就是喜歡自己、喜歡自己所做和做事方式。
45.You can’t use up creativity. The more you use, the more you have.
創造力愈用愈豐,永不枯竭。
46.Ask for what you want and be prepared to get it.
大膽追求你想要的,并準備好得到它。
47.I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels.
我樂見少女們揪住世界的衣領,勇敢索要屬于自己的一切。
48.Determine to live life with flair and laughter.
決心活得精彩,且常懷歡笑。
49.A wise woman refuses to be anyone's victim.
智慧的女人拒絕成為任何人的受害者。
50.I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.
過去我盡己所能,如今我懂得更多,自當做得更好。
51.You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.
你無法掌控所有際遇,但能選擇不被它們擊垮。
52.You only are free when you realize you belong no place—you belong every place.
當你意識到你不屬于任何地方,又屬于每個地方時,你才自由。
七月
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弗里達·卡羅 Frida Kahlo
這位墨西哥藝術家用畫筆記錄了她充滿痛苦與激情的一生,她的自畫像不僅是個人情感的宣泄,更是對女性身體自主權和文化身份的探索。她的作品大膽表達對愛、痛苦和身份的思考。
53.At the end of the day, we can endure much more than we think we can.
最終我們會發現,自己的承受力遠超想象。
54.I am my own muse.
我是我自己的繆斯。
55.Nothing is absolute. Everything changes, everything moves, everything revolves, everything flies and goes away.
萬物無常,一切皆在流轉飛逝。
56.Passion is the bridge that wakes you from pain to change.
熱情是跨越痛苦、通往改變的橋梁。
57.I think that little by little I'll be able to solve my problems and survive.
我相信,點滴努力終將帶我走出困境。
58.Nothing is worth more than laughter. It is strength to laugh and to abandon oneself, to be light.
歡笑勝過一切,它是放下沉重、輕裝前行的力量。
59.I paint self-portraits because I am so often alone, because I am the person I know best.
我畫自畫像,因我常獨處,也因我最懂自己。
60.You deserve a lover who takes away the lies and brings you hope, coffee, and poetry.
你值得這樣的愛人:驅散謊言,贈你希望、咖啡與詩。
61.Why do I need feet when I have wings to fly?
既有雙翼翱翔,何須踟躕步行?
八月
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瑪麗蓮·夢露 Marilyn Monroe
夢露在公眾面前展現出的自信與魅力,使她成為一個文化符號。然而,她的個人生活卻充滿挑戰,包括婚姻波折和內心掙扎。夢露以其獨特的魅力和才華,激勵著女性正視自我價值,并勇敢地展現自己的美麗與力量。
62.Strong women don't have attitude, they have standards.
強大的女性不是態度強硬,而是有自己的標準。
63.I don't stop when I'm tired, I only stop when I'm done.
疲憊不會讓我停止,唯有實現。
64.I'm no longer apologizing for being me.
我不再為做自己而道歉。
65.We should all start to live before we get too old. Fear is stupid, so are regrets.
趁未老去,盡情生活。恐懼與悔恨皆愚不可及。
66.A career is born in public, talent in privacy.
才華在獨處時生長,事業在屏幕前綻放。
67.All little girls should be told they are pretty, even if they aren’t.
每個女孩都該被稱贊美麗,即使她并不符合世俗標準。
68.I want to grow old without facelifts. I want to have the courage to be loyal to the face I have made.
我愿直面歲月,拒絕整容,忠誠于自己雕刻的面容。
69.If I'd observed all the rules, I'd never have got anywhere.
若當初循規蹈矩,我絕不會走到今天。
70.We are all of us stars, and we deserve to twinkle.
我們都是星星,都值得閃耀。
九月
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奧黛麗·赫本 Audrey Hepburn
她以《羅馬假日》成名,用精湛演技詮釋了女性的獨立與魅力。她堅信“永遠做自己人生的女主角”,鼓勵女性在任何場合都要自信從容。她將時尚視為“舒適與愛”的表達,而非取悅他人的工具。
71.To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow.
耕耘花園,就是相信明天。
72.Always be the leading lady of your own life.
永遠做自己人生的女主角。
73.Life is a party. Dress like it.
人生是盛宴,盛裝以赴。
74.I never think of myself as an icon. What is in other people’s minds is not in my mind. I just do my thing.
我不認為自己是偶像,他人如何想與我無關,我只專注前行。
75.The most important thing is to enjoy your life—to be happy—it's all that matters.
最重要的是享受人生、保持快樂——其余皆次要。
76.People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed.
人比物品更需要修復、復原、恢復生機、重塑和拯救。
77.No matter where you run, you just end up running into yourself.
無論逃往何處,最終只會遇見自己。
78.I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong.
我堅信,萬物崩裂時更需堅強。
十月
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馬拉拉·尤薩夫扎伊 Malala Yousafzai
馬拉拉是全球最年輕的諾貝爾和平獎得主。她在巴基斯坦塔利班統治下冒著生命危險倡導女性教育權,15歲時因公開反抗被槍擊,奇跡生還后繼續為女性發聲。她通過演講和著作激勵全球女性爭取受教育權利,成為打破性別暴力、追求知識自由的精神象征。
79.Do not wait for someone else to come and speak for you. It’s you who can change the world.
莫待他人為你發聲,改變世界者當是你自己。
80.I am stronger than fear.
我比恐懼更強大。
81.The best way to solve problems and to fight against war is through dialogue.
溝通是化解矛盾與戰爭的良方。
82.Life isn’t just about taking in oxygen and giving out carbon dioxide.
生命不僅是呼吸,更是活出意義。
83.I love physics bacause it is about truth, a world determined by principles and laws.
我喜歡物理學,因為它關乎事實,一個由原理與定律決定的世界。
84.Education is neither Eastern nor Western, it is human.
教育無分東西,唯屬人類。
85.We must tell girls their voices are important.
我們必須告訴女孩們,她們的聲音很重要。
86.At night our fear is strong . . . but in the morning, in the light, we find our courage again.
深夜恐懼蔓延,黎明光照時,勇氣自會重生。
87.Does not matter what language you choose, the important thing is the words you use to express yourself.
語言無關緊要,重要的是你選擇的表達之詞。
十一月
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謝麗爾·桑德伯格 Sheryl Sandberg
作為臉書首席運營官,桑德伯格打破了科技界的性別天花板。她在《向前一步》中剖析職場女性面臨的困境,鼓勵女性摒棄“我還沒準備好”的思維,主動爭取機會。她強調女性需重新定義“bossy”—不是專橫,而是領導力。她的經歷為女性在職場中爭取平等提供了實用策略。
88.It's time to cheer on girls and women who want to sit at the table.
此刻該為渴望躋身決策桌旁的女性喝彩。
89.Careers are a jungle gym, not a ladder.
職場是攀巖架,不是獨木梯。
90.In the future there will be no female leaders. There will just be leaders.
未來不應有“女性領導者”,只有“領導者”。
91.Motivation comes from working on things we care about. It also comes from working with people we care about.
動力源于投身熱愛之事,亦源于與珍視之人共事。
92.The more women help one another, the more we help ourselves.
女性彼此幫助越多,對自己的幫助也越多。
93.I want every little girl who’s told she’s bossy to be told instead she has leadership skills.
當女孩被斥“專橫”,請告訴她們:“你具備領導力”。
94.We cannot change what we are not aware of, and once we are aware, we cannot help but change.
不覺察則無改變,一旦覺醒,改變必然發生。
95.Being confident and believing in your own self - worth is necessary to achieving your potential.
自信并相信自我價值是發揮潛力的必要條件。
96.Fortune does favor the bold and you'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try.
運氣眷顧有勇氣的人,不嘗試不知自己的能力。
十二月
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梅耶·馬斯克 Maye Musk
模特、營養師、作家和互聯網名人。梅耶的自傳《人生由我》被翻譯成30種語言,激勵著全球無數女性。她的人生經歷和精神,鼓勵著女性勇敢地追求自己的夢想,不被年齡和困難所限制。
97.Don’t let society’s timeline dictate when you should achieve goals.
別讓社會的時間表決定你何時該實現目標。
98.Age is just a number, not a limit. Every decade of my life has been better than the previous one.
年齡僅是數字,不是限制,每十年都比前十年更精彩。
99.If someone calls you old, never see them again. Ha!
若有人嫌你老,立刻絕交。哈!
100.A job you look forward to and love is crucial because work takes up most of your waking hours!
熱愛的工作至關重要,因它占據你大半清醒時光。
101.Makeup isn’t about hiding your age—it’s about looking your best.
化妝不為掩飾年齡,只為展現最佳狀態。
102.If you live in fear of another person, you must make a plan to escape.
若活在他人陰影下,務必策劃逃離。
103.Children leave, lovers part, jobs end—but true friends stay.
孩子遠行、愛人分離、工作終結——唯真朋友永在。
104.If you want change, learn to say, "Why not?"
若渴求改變,先學會說:“有何不可?”
這些話都收錄在了趁早限定內容版效率手冊「女性主義」。當你打開手冊讀到這些話時,你會發現,女性從來不是一種標簽,而是一種力量。這種力量,正在這里悄悄生長。
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