愛不是單方面的付出，是兩個(gè)人的雙向奔赴

深夜刷到一條朋友圈，配圖是兩人曾經(jīng)牽手的合照，文案卻只有一句“算了”。我盯著屏幕看了很久，突然想起你也曾在無數(shù)個(gè)夜晚，對(duì)著聊天記錄里的未讀消息發(fā)呆，把他的忽冷忽熱都?xì)w咎于“他最近太忙了”。

可你忘了嗎？真正愛你的人，忙也會(huì)抽空回消息，累也會(huì)給你一個(gè)擁抱。那些明明有空卻故意不回，http://m.yixinbeijing.com/mnews/76745.shtml
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http://m.woodsoho.com/mnews/36704.shtml明明在乎卻裝作冷漠，在你需要陪伴時(shí)永遠(yuǎn)“不在狀態(tài)”的瞬間，其實(shí)都是他薄情寡義的證據(jù)。

你總以為自己的溫柔能焐熱他的心，總想著再等一等，他就會(huì)看到你的好。你為他改掉脾氣，為他放棄愛好，為他的每一句話都找借口，唯獨(dú)沒有為自己想過一次。

直到后來，你在某個(gè)清晨醒來，突然就釋懷了。你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的堅(jiān)持有多可笑，那些反復(fù)拉扯的日子里，他從未真正為你停下腳步。原來不是你不夠好，而是他本就沒打算對(duì)你用心。

愛不是單方面的付出，是兩個(gè)人的雙向奔赴。薄情的人永遠(yuǎn)不懂珍惜，不懂感恩，更不懂如何去愛一個(gè)人。

所以啊，別再為不值得的人難過了。終有一天，你會(huì)明白：那個(gè)你曾深愛過的人，從始至終，都是一個(gè)薄情寡義的人。而你，值得被人捧在手心，值得一份全心全意的愛。